Help! 8 yr old with stained underwear
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Last post: 21/03/2023 at 2:16 am
I've really started to lose my temper about it now as I think it's just laziness on her part. Have tried talking to her mum about it when she collects her for the weekend but she just shrugs her shoulders and says she's tried. I feel like I'm the only one who's really concerned about this but I'm at a loose end. I have another daughter (mine) who's almost 9 and I never had this problem with her at all after about 5.
Has anybody else gone through this and have any solutions?
Michelle
Have you tried letting her use the kids toilet wet wipes?
Also, have you tried giving her a girls book on ''growing up''?
How about letting her choose some nice underwear?
It may also be worthwhile you contacting ERIC for more advice: Bedwetting, daytime wetting, soiling, constipation, special needs Information Packs
There can be a few causes for soling eg attention, laziness, not wiping correctly, stress/anxiety/worry, constipation etc
Try to avoid losing your temper with her or talk about it all the time(esp to others in front of her) as this wont help. She will outgrow it. Maybe try a star/reward chart with her (maybe even pocket money).
Let me know how things go.
Jeanettex
Star chart sounds like a good idea too.
Michelle
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x
Is your step daughter constipated? This can cause leakage in the pants. My son is also 8 and he has been badly constiapted and we have had leakage on lots of occasions. I know at 8 they are quite independent, but you need to find out if she is pooing properly. It took many months for me to realise what was wrong with my son.
Don't lose your temper with her or get annoyed, she can't help it. And if you do she will hide things from you which will cause further problems.
With my son, i am just mater of fact and say okay we need to get you changed and cleaned up. Because i don't make a fuss, he comes to me to tell me, which i would rather he did.
Wet wipes also are a good idea, as toilet tissue itself doesn't always do the job.
Good luck
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